So in the past posts you have learned of the characteristics of the FINANCIAL PREDATORS™ as described by Joe Navarro, retired FBI profiler.
Now as Joe mentions several of these characteristics can lead to a very DANGEROUS scenario especially the CONTROLLING one.
Let's use Delle's situation as an example. As I know Jim DUMPED her instead of her having to confront him. So what if she had decided Jim was not the right person in her life?
This is when it is VERY IMPORTANT to follow what I teach clients to do.
First, NEVER confront the person in person! With Jim she would have told him, when he was a LONG distance from her physically! As you remember, he was a traveling salesman covering a large territory. She would have talked to him via her smartphone and explained her position in the relationship. Or she might have texted him.
One thing with Delle was that she could be WISHY WASHY as her deceased husband Bob had explained to me decades ago. Also she was very reluctant to do anything that would hurt a person. More importantly Jim, as a smooth talking salesman, could have persuaded her to change her mind!
When you decide to END the relationship then you have to be FIRM in your DECISION!
More precautions in the next post!
Hugh Simpson