In the last post, you learned to make sure there was LONG PHYSICAL distance between you and the person when making the decision to end the relationship.
Second, you learned to NEVER do anything except by phone or texting. This way you will hopefully continue to be strong in your decision.
Today I'm going to add several more VERY IMPORTANT steps you need to take.
First, I'm absolutely sure that in the case of Delle that Jim had a KEY to her condo. If you have done the same, get a LOCKSMITH to come as soon as possible to change the locks!
Second, I'm sure Jim had stuff of his in Delle's condo as I would bring my stuff when I stayed there.
You need to IMMEDIATELY pack up his stuff and take the box or boxes to the nearest UPS store. NEVER meet to give the stuff back in person.
If the person continues to harass you, then get a RESTRAINING ORDER! If Jim had not been the one, who decided to DUMP Delle, and kept phoning her or knocking on her door/windows then she should have taken action to end the harassment!
I would strongly suggest that you pack up what you need and leave where you live for at least a week. Don't let anyone know where you are going. Ask the local police to do ride bys of your residence to see if he is showing up. It would be smart to at least be able to give a photo of him to the local police along with a description of his vehicle.
In Delle's case, she was literally around the corner from the Forsyth County Sheriff's Office. At the time her daughter was a Congresswoman in Georgia, whose home in Rome, Georgia had been SWATTED several times. The sheriff's deputies would have been at Delle's condo in Cummings, Georgia in less than several minutes.
You can't afford to take ANY chances! YOUR LIFE and the lives of loved ones could be in DANGER!
In the next post I will discuss other steps you should take if you decide to MARRY ANYONE ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE WEALTHY!
Hugh Simpson