These are the final characteristics retired FBI profiler JOE NAVARRO mentions regarding PREDATORS.
CONTROLLING – I definitely think Jim was CONTROLLING those off-the-wall statements Delle made to me about being more interested in her than just as a friend AFTER Jim came into her life.
Romantic interests were never discussed with her in the THREE YEARS before Jim entered the scene. I never once kissed her even on the cheek. She was the one, who always initiated the "glad to see you" hugging. When we watched movies in her movie room I never put my arm around her even sitting next to her.
Yes, she was cute and fun to be with but romance NEVER entered the relationship!
POSSESSIVE – I truly believe Jim was VERY POSSESSIVE and didn’t even want Delle to continue our relationship as a FRIEND during their tumultuous on and off relationship.
This is a potentially DANGEROUS characteristic of any type of PREDATOR according to Joe Navarro. You hear all the time of horror stories where if the PREDATOR can’t have her, NO ONE ELSE will either leading to MURDER!
SEDUCER – Now we get to the very interesting characteristic that could have changed Delle from the one, who said that she would NEVER have any sexual relationship with a boyfriend UNTIL THEY WERE MARRIED! I don’t know if she changed her mind with Jim; however I know for a FACT she did with John before they finally married over a year later.
How do I know? One of my long time male friends happens to be a friend of John’s. My friend said that Delle met John and was LIVING WITH HIM within about two months after they met! I truly don’t think they were living in SEPERATE bedrooms before they finally married a year later!
SMOOTH – Again what top salesman or saleswoman isn’t SMOOTH! I bet Jim rehearsed how he was going to win over Delle, which for a short time he did.
As for John, I know he currently owns a struggling PRINTING business. How many people go to a printer today? I pray Delle is NOT financially supporting him!
Next post we will discuss most likely why Delle began acting totally different from the Delle I had known for 30+ YEARS!
Hugh Simpson
